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You can take the girl out of the west, but you can’t take the west out of her soul...


Yesterday marked the first day of classes for what we Hoyas affectionately call “the Hilltop” or Georgetown University.


The entire campus was abuzz with incoming Students. Families helped beloved freshmen move last minute odds and ends into the dorms, wise seniors discussed important matters in groups on the lawn and graduate students like myself, wondered at mountains of reading already piled high.


As I made my way onto the sprawling 104 acres of land which makes up the school, I marveled at just how at-home I now feel in this space. In so many ways, my first year of graduate school was a blur. This year, while walking slowly across the green expanse of lawn so carefully tended by Georgetown staff (seriously y’all, those folks NEVER slow down!) I realized that the “low-and-slow” feeling in my tummy is called calm.


It is called peace. It is called quiet.


And it is such a gift.


Navigating the building where my first class of the semester was held, I wandered a few new hallways, reviewed some readings in the sunshine of the rooftop and mentally made a list of all the things I am thankful for, because the list is long.


The list is long, but it is one I make every day.


Whether jotted down on a cafe napkin, little blue notebook or simply noted mentally, it varies from day-to-day. But I always find the thread of gratitude for the same recurring things interesting.


These were some of the items recorded on yesterday’s list:


  • The ability to get out of bed on my own, move my body with ease and find clean drinking water

  • Feeling safe during morning coffee and writing

  • The ability to communicate with loved ones

  • The unwavering adoration of one very hairy, slightly chubby blue dog

  • Sassy retorts

  • Reading and books, specifically the revolution of the printing press (yes I am a nerd, no please don’t ponder why my brain operates this way for too long)

  • The gift of being a woman, empowered to go wherever I choose unaccompanied and independently

  • Guitar strings and Red Vines

  • The kindness of strangers

  • Paint outside the lines

  • Dogs who make you feel like you’re the only one that matters on the street (IE Duchess, a bully/pit I met who OOZED joy

  • Community and real friendship

  • My sister and her wildly inappropriate responses to people who are creepy or mean

  • Being able to call my grandparents whenever I like

  • The ability to say “no”

  • Buttered sourdough biscuits

  • Bobby Bare songs

  • My momma


It is, at times, a silly list.


But the thread that ties the majority of these daily lists together is one primarily made up of the incredible people around me. A support system through family is unlike any other, and something I don’t take for granted.


My freedom, independence and health. Learning. The basic necessities: good (sometimes healthy) food and clean water. Shelter. Safety. Companionship. Giggles. Dog hair. Art.


Everyday I use, employ or take advantage of one of the things listed above so casually it is almost shocking.


But a little list every day, helps to remind me of just how precious each thing is.


Today, I am adding another thing I am grateful for…..


You!



xoxo

AB


(a cowgirl in concrete)




















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ripsreddirt
ripsreddirt
2023年8月24日

This one is great! I try to make that list daily but am not very consistent with it.


Squirrel thought: What brand of coffee do you like? Bison Union Ranch Hand and Wyoming Rodeo blends are mine.


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不明なメンバー
2023年8月27日
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Thank you pard! It can be hard to make those new habits "stick." Which Is why some days it's more fitting to make the list in my head...even if it's fast and incomplete I believe it counts! :D


Haha well sir I hate to admit it, but I am NOT fancy when it comes to coffee. I love Bison Union, but frankly I drink a lot of cheap folgers from a can and just can't be sorry for my wicked way!

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E.W. F.
E.W. F.
2023年8月24日

This is a great idea, I think that I will try it myself. Good luck this semester, if you are in need of help, please do not hesitate to reach out. It may get a little western now and then (Especially during finals and term paper time) but you got this! May God richly bless you and protect you! ~Br. E.

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不明なメンバー
2023年8月24日
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Thank you pard! I am so grateful, this second year doesn't feel that overwhelming sense of PANIC that the first had! Such a gift, and I truly appreciate your support and help....prayers will always and forever be the BEST thing ever, please add me to your list! <3

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Kaysa Smith-Duke
Kaysa Smith-Duke
2023年8月24日

Love your posts!

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不明なメンバー
2023年8月24日
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Ahhhh thank you so much friend! I am having a ball reviving the blog....it's such a freeing spot to be able to communicate more than social media alone allows! <3

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